Aug 31, 2020

This article was created because I decided to have some fun in a free adult chat, but what surprised me was that so many men make the same mistakes when communicating with women. Dear men, let me enlighten you a little on what you shouldn’t do if you want to really chat up a woman.

Top mistakes guys make in sex chat

8 tips on how to pick up a woman in sex chat

1. Don’t send a dick pic right away

Of course, people come to sex chat not for love or a serious relationship, but you don’t need to be an asshole and immediately send a photo of your cock. Your lollipop will not be to her taste if you send it right away without even a simple hello.

I am not against sending hot pics; it turns me on, but only we’ve chatted for a bit first.

2. Fill out your profile

Fill out your profile, at least minimally, that way youll have a better chance of being answered. A lot of requests come to the women in the chat, and a message from an empty profile with the nickname Jhfhbvdfgkl is unlikely to give you a headstart if you want to chat with women.

It is advisable to indicate not only a normal nickname, but also describe yourself, your hobbies, and your sexual desires or fantasies. And if you approach this with humor, then your chances of getting the attention of the ladies will increase 100%.

3. Find out the sexual boundaries of the interlocutor

Everyone has their own sexual boundaries, so discuss them before you suddenly decide to jump into a role-playing game. Your partner may not have the same desires you do, and the heroes of your erotic fantasies may be the villains of her terrible dreams.

Please don’t understand me literally. No need to immediately after the greeting ask a woman a question about her sexual preferences. Of course, there are ladies who come to sex chat with only one purpose – to get sexual release. But most women are interested in first playing a game called flirting, during which you can find out what she likes and what is categorically unacceptable to her.

4. Adult chat is the equality of partners

If you think that a woman is obliged to fulfill all your desires, then you need not a free sex chat but a cam site. Remember, erotic chat is a mutual desire of two and all actions in it should bring pleasure to both parties.

5. Dont be a miser

If in a chat there is an opportunity to send a woman a gift, dont be cheap. Do it! First, you will definitely be noticed. Second, a generous man immediately arouses respect.

6. Erotic compliments

Dont forget about compliments, including erotic ones, especially since this is an erotic chat. If you liked her nickname, write to her about it. Feel free to express your admiration for her. Do you remember the old adage saying that women fall in love with their ears? Emotionally cold men only repel.

7. Dont be offended

If communication does not go how you’d like, I beg you not to try to build a victim out of yourself and be offended. Such a man discourages any sexual desire toward him.

8. Take the initiative

Dont forget that according to statistics in sex chats, most users are men. In two hours I received about 80 requests from men; it is simply physically impossible to answer everyone. Therefore, no matter how sad it may be to not get a response, you will have to take the initiative and do everything possible to stand out from the rest. It’s almost like a hunt; you’re the hunter here and your reward is a sex chat with a lovely stranger:)

I hope these few tips will help not only you, dear men, but also women have fun in adult chat rooms.

Pleasant dating and hot chatting!

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    3 years ago

    Well you know what most of you girls are actually racist or fake (male in yareel ) or a lesbian lmao ..only a Very few respectable girls left on the site …plz add some verification process if you want to keep making a living from the game ……

    3 years ago
    Reply to  TruthBombs


    Thank you for message. We will convey your desire to the developers.

    Ash Martin
    3 years ago

    Try not to make the new person you’re dating the center of your world. We all have that friend who used to be so much fun, and who listened to all our problems, then suddenly started dating someone new and vanished into their world. Don’t be that person. Equally, don’t quit your hobbies for your new date. Keep knitting that jumper for your mum, keep growing that herb garden. Remember that having hobbies and interests is attractive to the person you’re dating. Your love of pottery or passion for long cycling ventures might be part of what sparked their interest in you in the first place.

    2 years ago
    Reply to  Ash Martin

    I liked your words very much … Thank you ❤️

    May Flower
    May Flower
    1 year ago

    It depends on the context. If you are looking for advice on how to improve your sex chat skills, then this could be helpful. However, if you are looking for an unbiased opinion, then this could create bias.

    Kane Rodriguez
    1 year ago

    Nice post. I learn something totally new and challenging on websites

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